Were you the woman or man sitting there watching as a mother and father were screamed at by their children or child? Did you ever just want to grab another parent and just tell them to whoop the day lights out of their kid? Have you ever had to fight the urge to tell your bestfriend, or boss that their children need some serious discipline?
Now do you find you asking yourself how you became one of those mom's with the loud kid or the "bad" kid? The family with "that kid" the one no one wants to play with or have over.
Are you sick of your kids running over you and taking advantage of you? Are you tired of them back talking you and telling you no? Are you just tired?
Well don't worry it happens to alot of us. In fact it is happening to me right now with my 5 year old. She makes me just want to lock my self in a room and cry. She tells me no, she yells at me, and ignores me. Yes, I am embarrassed to tell you this but I figure if I am going through this chances are so are other people. Most of my problems stem from my ex-husband and the drama he provides with the lack of attention he gives her. I also have not been blessed with the gift of patience but the curse of impatience. So I to am to blame. We are still after 2 years of trying to get her on our level and trying eveything we learned through our life, you know....everything our parents did. Yes I said it I turned into my mom...( sigh) Well now it is time for a change and a time to open our eyes and see what WE as adults are doing wrong.
I welcome any and all advice on how you get your kids to mind you.